In the same fashion, we should tear our clothes when we arrive at the kotel, because we should mourn the loss of the holy
On the other hand, things clearly aren't right. The
If we can't be happy, and we can't mourn, what are we supposed to do?
Crying is the only human reaction that can represent both extreme joy & sorrow, possibly even at the same time. At the Kotel, We cry because we love G-d and are happy to return to such a holy place. We also cry over all the blood that paved he way for our return and continues to pave the way for us to remain there. We cry for the ones we have lost and we cry for the ones that we still have.